Our ideal men are well groomed to fit into the role of fatherhood
Men need the church but, more importantly, the church needs men. The presence of spirit filled men is one of the essential factor of church health, growth, giving, and expansion.
following the role of male leadership within the family, the bible reveals that God has a family to which He is adding children. Physical families mirror what God is doing spiritually. Satan hates God’s plan and tries to get men and women to reject their respective roles. He subtly trashes what God describes as holy.
The family, with unique God-given roles for husbands and wives, is a very special, holy institution. Studies continue to show that the best environment in which a child can grow up is within a happy home where his or her biological parents live together and love each other. This is the environment in which a child feels secure and the one in which he or she has the best opportunity to succeed in life (compare Malachi 2:15).
The role of men includes leadership within the family. God says that the husband is the head—the one who bears the primary responsibility for the state of the family. “For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church” (Ephesians 5:23). This is not superiority but responsibility. And coupled with this responsibility is authority to fulfill God’s directive.
Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.