The Rhythm Of Love
WHAT IS LOVE
Jesus is love and we should emulate him. The dictionary defines love as a strong passion for someone or something, the whole essence of love is summarized in 1st Corinthians 13; love is pure and selfless, this generation of love we are into just what we have to gain, but love in one word is sacrifice.
IS LOVE ATTAINABLE
When you hear what love says in Corinthians you ask where is the joy. But if you are selflessly in love you will selflessly make your partner happy and that’s romance. Already that is if we settled down to love truly, yes it is good to hang out and add spice to the relationship so that it doesn’t die, besides it is not love if it is not reciprocal .John 3 verse 16 says God loves us that is why He gave. You can give without loving but you cannot love without giving. We give alms to beggars out of pity, so we necessarily don’t need to love them before giving.
KNOWING YOU SANG A SONG TITLED BINTI LAYE, WHAT INSPIRED THE SONG
There was a young boy around my house and after a while I heard he was dead. I asked my brother what happened and he said the boy was a yahoo boy who was able to get some money, so he left home and stayed in a hotel, organized parties and hung out with friends. One day he was in his car with his girlfriend and they had an accident their body was not recovered, and I thought to myself vanity upon vanity all is vanity.
HOW CAN I BE SURE I’M IN LOVE
It starts when you are free with the person. If you can tell the world or express it in public and also if you can feel peace around the person. True love takes time to grow and you cant feel like the same way for everybody.
You can’t have true love for two three people. Infatuation is when you just see someone and admire the person. You can have infatuation with as many people as possible but you can’t have a room in your heart for two people, even men that marry two wives is not true love its lust or infatuation. So if you see something in your wife or partner that is not there, try to put it there because marrying another wife to give you just that 20% that your wife doesn’t have will cost you a lot more when she moves in with you.
SHOULD PEOPLE LIVE TOGETHER BECAUSE THEY ARE IN LOVE BUT NOT MARRIED
They are not supposed to stay together because they end up sinning against GOD and it causes heart break. The lady actually loses it all. As much as possible if a lady can keep herself and just say no to sex the man might not say it but he will respect her.
HOW DO YOU SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP IN MARRIAGE AFTER 30 YEARS AND KEEPS IT BURNING
Marriage is not a bed of roses, love is there and at times love might fail. Also you must have the willingness, and spice it up. Husband tell your wife you love her every day, send her a text, take her out, buy her a gift and surprise her, show her how much you love her. It’s not enough when you say it, because women are moved by what they hear and how they are treated. Men are just moved by what they see.
HOW CAN WE LOVE LIKE GOD
We should know we are created in the image of God. Love should be unconditional, that is the agape love, and as little gods we are given the capability, but our selfishness is what is killing us. If you feel for other people the way God love us, that is a display of agape love. We can do that by the help of the holy spirit. We should learn to love God truly this year for who He is, not because of what He can give us. If you love God you will be early in church, you will join the work force and also God will make sure you don’t die anyhow.
WHEN YOU FIND AS A MAN WHAT DO YOU DO
I don’t think it’s right for the lady to approach a man, the way God wired us is different. He who finds a wife so it’s the man that is supposed to find and not the woman
You can write a note, move around get her number and send a text, and from there you can become friends and later pop the question.
WHEN YOU ACT ON LOVE AND TAKEN FOR A FOOL WHAT DO YOU DO
Spirituality is not foolishness. When people were selling in the house of God, He aggressively threw them out. Just show love, be a nice guy, greet people, be friendly but when you sense someone taking you for granted let them know. You don’t have to fight, Stand your ground and be loveable.
IS IT OK TO LOVE WITHOUT MONEY BECAUSE IF A MAN IS NOT FINANCIALLY OK THE WOMAN WILL NOT ANSWER
When my wife saw me I was not like this but she just loved me. So guys just improve on yourself, do your best, sometimes guys are just lazy and dirty. Guys try and tidy up and look smart and sharp. For the lady, true love is not all about money, just look at the potentials, if he is hard working and determined you can give him a chance.
WHY DON’T MEN TALK DO I SCARE THEM AS A LADY
Some people have self-esteem issues, they need to work on that. Read books that will help them, and she won’t come and meet you to talk so you have to talk. At times the fear of being rejected is what worries them but you have to be very confident even if she might say no just say it.
Dating is friendship and not doing what married people do. Love is reciprocal, so show love to those around you not for anything in return but as a sign that you love God.
July 19, 2017
July 14, 2017
October 24, 2016